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The key elements utilized in most Western wedding
ceremonies, in their most common order, are:
1) Introduction, Opening, or Invocation -- in which the officiant
typically announces the purpose of the gathering, indicates the names of the
bride and groom, welcomes the guests and solicits them to participate in the
ceremony by their presence and, perhaps, their prayers.
2) Main Body -- in which the officiant ruminates on the meaning of
marriage and the significance of the bride and groom's decision to join
together in wedlock. The officiant may also share more casual remarks about
the bride and groom as he or she has come to know them, and about the
fitness of their union. This portion of the ceremony might also include
religious or other readings by the officiant or by other persons who have
been asked by the bride and groom to speak.
The Main Body is sometimes divided into the Interrogation and the
Presentation (either may come first). The Interrogation specifically
refers to the officiant asking the couple if they come of their own free
will to marry; it may also include the officiant asking the potentially show
stopping question, "If anyone has just cause why these two may not wed,
speak now, or forever hold your peace." (With any luck your ceremony will be
peaceful.) The Presentation is when the bride, or the bride and groom, are
presented for marriage by their parent or parents (the familiar, "Who gives
this woman").
3) Introduction to the Vows -- in which the officiant explains the
significance of the vows which the couple are going to exchange.
4) Vows -- in which the bride and groom individually affirm their
commitment to one another, in response to questions posed by the officiant;
the responses usually take the form of "I do" or "I will." In the Western
Christian tradition, this is the point at which they are officially married.
5) Exchange of Rings -- in which the couple, usually repeating
phrases at the officiant's direction, declare their commitment to one
another and place a wedding ring on the hand of their betrothed. In the
Western Jewish tradition, this is the point at which they are officially
married.
6) Closing/Announcement of the Couple -- in which the officiant
announces that the couple is officially wed. This may also include a final
prayer or benediction, the officiant indicating that the groom may "kiss the
bride," and/or the officiant "introducing" the newly married couple to the
guests.
This ceremonial order is usually preceded by a processional, in which the
wedding party members enter the ceremonial location, and is followed by a
recessional, in which they exit.
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